Rewrite Your Relationship Story WorkshopFor ambitious women and men who have spent years dealing with dysfunctional, draining relationships that held you back and kept you small instead of lifting you up…

Discover the little-known secrets that will take you from having an army of failed relationships to creating (and keeping) a transformative partnership that empowers you,

So you can create a powerful loving container where you get to have what you want and need, and fulfill your higher purpose.

Discover the tested and proven techniques, processes, and tools that will help you tap into the truth of who you are...

...and only entertain relationships that contribute to your mental health, are deliciously passionate and fulfilling, and help you grow in both your life and business...

...even if you have been burned in the past, have plateaued in your relationship, or feel like you have no more energy to give to your love life.

What would it feel like to be in a relationship where you can be unapologetically yourself, confidently ask for what you want, evolve as a person without being held back from what you want to do, and not be riddled with the same repeating conflicts, all the time?

Really. Close your eyes and picture this right now:

 

You’re in a relationship. You’re madly in love with your partner. And not in the angsty, super attached “I can’t live without him/her” kind of way, but in a healthy, safe way where your heart expands and your intimacy deepens more by the day.

 

(which, by the way, can initially feel boring and something you may not even be initially attracted to… more on that later)

 

The issue with the vast majority of relationships, is that they can be kind of stupid.

Yeah, I said it.

 

Have you ever questioned why the heck you were in a relationship in the first place, when all it seemed to bring was frustrations, limitations on your future, and constantly having to think about someone else’s well-being and problems?

 

… only to backtrack and feel guilty about having that thought, because of course you care about your partner and want to be with him/her. Right? 😳

 

If you’ve ever had that thought cross your mind… you’re not alone.

 

Look around you. We are flooded with examples of relationships where people get complacent and don’t achieve their dreams, or play out their unresolved daddy or mommy issues on each other without being aware of it (even though everyone else is picking up on it), or they’re constantly complaining about their partner.

 

You’ve seen it, because it’s all around us.

 

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People sliding into premature or toxic relationships, justifying the decision in their mind with excuses such as…

"Oh, I'm in my 30’s/40's/50's, I better find someone to marry before it’s too late."

"I feel lonely, maybe it’s time for me to find someone to share my time with."

“I don’t think I’m going to find anyone better than my current partner.”

 

...Relationships are indeed dumb if we show up for them like this.

 

If we initiate and continue them from a place of scarcity, insecurity, boredom, loneliness, lack of trust (in ourselves and our partner), and because we believe that something healthier and more fulfilling is not available.

 

Truth alert: it’s not relationshipping that’s dumb. It’s how we show up for it that’s the problem.

 

Most people either get lost in a relationship and tend to our partners excessively, or get comfortable and fall into a default mode where, instead of growing with your partner, you enable each other’s complexes, insecurities, and bad habits.

 

It becomes a never-ending loop of the same arguments, avoiding conflicts, jealous streaks, and metaphorically hitting your head against the wall hoping you’ll eventually find a solution.

 

It doesn’t have to be this way. Relationships can actually be a powerful incubator and safe container for evolution, intimacy, love, and growth in all areas of your life when you make the decision that YES, you deserve more and YES, you are going to do what it takes to break through these old disempowering ways of being once and for all.

 

Instead of going for familiarity and the lowest hanging fruits, you are the one to decide that you can have more:

 

-The sexy, supportive, incredible partner who treats you like a King or Queen.

-Yummy, soul-filling sex that takes you to another stratosphere.

-A rock-solid intimate partnership that skyrockets you into new levels of success (making money is more fun when you have a warm body to come home to at night, wouldn't you say?)

 

If you have found yourself (or are currently in) a relationship where you are holding yourself back, not speaking 100% truthfully to what you want and need, and using your experience with previous relationships as a compass to navigate your current one…

 

That next level relationship exists, and it's out there waiting for you.

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Meet Your MentorsCelinne Da Costa

Self-Actualization Coach, Story Alchemist, Author, Speaker,

Former Anxious Avoidant

Celinne Da Costa is a self-actualization coach for high-performing entrepreneurs, as well as an author and a speaker who's been featured in Forbes, Business Insider, TEDx, and more. She helps her clients become confident and fully-expressed leaders with irresistible stories, influential brands, international media coverage, and thousands of raving fans.

Celinne has over 1000 hours of practitioner training in a variety of techniques including NeuroLinguistic Programming, Breathwork, Hypnotherapy, Emotional Intelligence, and Life Coaching. She uses her variety of tools to create customized breakthroughs for her clients.

Formerly anxious-avoidant and ridden with unconscious daddy issues, Celinne did the work you'll learn in this workshop to heal her relationship with herself, with men, and in partnership.

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Meet Your MentorsCelinne Da Costa

Self-Actualization Coach, Story Alchemist, Author, Speaker,

Former Anxious Avoidant

Celinne Da Costa is a self-actualization coach for high-performing entrepreneurs, as well as an author and a speaker who's been featured in Forbes, Business Insider, TEDx, and more. She helps her clients become confident and fully-expressed leaders with irresistible stories, influential brands, international media coverage, and thousands of raving fans.

Celinne has over 1000 hours of practitioner training in a variety of techniques including NeuroLinguistic Programming, Breathwork, Hypnotherapy, Emotional Intelligence, and Life Coaching. She uses her variety of tools to create customized breakthroughs for her clients.

Formerly anxious-avoidant and ridden with unconscious daddy issues, Celinne did the work you'll learn in this workshop to heal her relationship with herself, with men, and in partnership.

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Aurimas Juodka (AJ)

Entrepreneur,  Speaker, Human Performance Expert, Recovering Emotionally Unavailable Man

AJ has spent the last decade optimizing the lives of entrepreneurs, executives and everyday people through High-Performance coaching while being engaged in dysfunctional partnerships.

Coming from a connection-less military environment AJ has spent the last decade immersing himself in multi-dimensional personal growth, deep meditation,  and mental reprogramming.

As a recovering Emotionally Unavailable Man, AJ came to understanding how much pain men can cause by not owning their emotions and in this workshop, will show you how to support men through this process.

Aurimas Juodka (AJ)

Entrepreneur,  Speaker, Human Performance Expert, Recovering Emotionally Unavailable Man

AJ has spent the last decade optimizing the lives of entrepreneurs, executives and everyday people through High-Performance coaching while being engaged in dysfunctional partnerships.

Coming from a connection-less military environment AJ has spent the last decade immersing himself in multi-dimensional personal growth, deep meditation,  and mental reprogramming.

As a recovering Emotionally Unavailable Man, AJ came to understanding how much pain men can cause by not owning their emotions and in this workshop, will show you how to support men through this process.

Meet Your MentorsCelinne Da Costa

Self-Actualization Coach, Story Alchemist, Author, Speaker,

Former Anxious Avoidant

Celinne Da Costa is a self-actualization coach for high-performing entrepreneurs, as well as an author and a speaker who's been featured in Forbes, Business Insider, TEDx, and more. She helps her clients become confident and fully-expressed leaders with irresistible stories, influential brands, international media coverage, and thousands of raving fans.

Celinne has over 1000 hours of practitioner training in a variety of techniques including NeuroLinguistic Programming, Breathwork, Hypnotherapy, Emotional Intelligence, and Life Coaching. She uses her variety of tools to create customized breakthroughs for her clients.

Formerly anxious-avoidant and ridden with unconscious daddy issues, Celinne did the work you'll learn in this workshop to heal her relationship with herself, with men, and in partnership.

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Aurimas Juodka (AJ)

Entrepreneur,  Speaker, Human Performance Expert, Recovering Emotionally Unavailable Man

AJ has spent the last decade optimizing the lives of entrepreneurs, executives and everyday people through High-Performance coaching while being engaged in dysfunctional partnerships.

Coming from a connection-less military environment AJ has spent the last decade immersing himself in multi-dimensional personal growth, deep meditation,  and mental reprogramming.

As a recovering Emotionally Unavailable Man, AJ came to understanding how much pain men can cause by not owning their emotions and in this workshop, will show you how to support men through this process.

Here's what they don't tell you in the movies:

Almost every relationship you’ve seen play out in Hollywood glamorizes anxious-avoidant dynamics: one person desperately chasing the other in an attempt to convince them that it’s true love, only to have the love interest avoid and cause drama until they realize that indeed, the person they were ignoring is the love of their life. It’s passionate, it’s dramatic, it’s attention grabbing...

... And it’s utterly unsustainable.

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You see, there are 3 types of relationships you can have:

 

  1. Basic, unconscious relationships ask: "what can I take?". These are the relationships that the majority of the population are in… figuring out what they can "get" from their partner.

 

  1. A more advanced, but still not fully conscious, relationship asks "what can I give?" Seems altruistic and pure, until someone feels drained due to lack of proper communication and boundaries.

 

  1. Then, there's the most advanced, conscious relationship which asks, "what can we contribute to the world?" When you learn to operate from that space, that’s where the magic begins.

 

And by the way, sometimes this 3rd type of relationship can feel kind of… boring 😳.

 

Remember how I mentioned that in the beginning? You might not be used to the levels of safety, security, support, and deep, drama-free unconditional love that this 3rd type of relationship can bring, because there's a good chance your nervous system might be addicted to the up-and-down swings we're taught are normal.

 

Unfortunately, most of the population is out there looking for another person to fill the void that they feel is missing within them.

That doesn't have to be you.

While relationships are great mirrors and vehicles for personal development and addressing our unhealed wounds... all the most successful relationships start from WITHIN.

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So here's the good news and the bad news:

The bad news is... that your partner is not going to fix you. He or she is not doing to draw your boundaries, communicate your needs, or solve your mommy or daddy issues for you.

That would just put you into the position where you're going to keep attracting the same person or if you stay in that relationship, you will be having the same exact arguments over and over again. Exhausting!

The good news is...

You're in control of that and there is a proven process for rewriting your disempowering relationship story into an empowering one, once and for all -- and that's why you're here!

 

By equipping yourself with the knowledge we’re sharing in the Rewrite Your Relationship Story workshop, you get to be the creator of the relationship you’ve always wanted. YOU get to be the one who calls yourself out on your shit and lets go of old stories. YOU get to be the one who draws boundaries and creates a safe container. YOU get to be the one who directly asks for what you want and need.

 

Don't expect anyone to do that for you...

 

The irony of it is, that your partner can only come in to help you when you start helping yourself.

 

When you let go of the expectation that they're going to fix your mess for you.

And you take responsibility to fix it yourself so you can experience the most loving, fulfilling relationship yet...

 

That's where the alchemy begins!

And that's what a relationship is REALLY meant to be. A space to unpack your baggage safely and be able to transmute it into your gifts. Into true intimacy, growth, and connection.

Get ready to...

  • Finally kick that feeling of dread and "not-enoughness" surrounding your relationship
  • Have unlimited energy and passion for your significant other
  • Create ease and flow in your relationship, so you can show up fully as yourself
  • Have a yummy, intimate sex life where even your most secretive desires get met
  • Know how to consciously communicate with your partner, even when it feels scary and uncomfortable
  • Make it all stick for life, with a rock-solid framework for new habits and ways of being

Join us in this 2-day recorded workshop to Rewrite Your Relationship Story and make this the year you look back on and say “Wow, that’s the year I transformed my relationships!”

Understanding Your Truth

Gain a deep understanding of what you truly want,  the deep-rooted desires you're hiding from yourself, and what you're looking for in a partner. You'll be surprised how much of this you're NOT aware of. We'll help you find the blind spots!

Boundary Building

Have you ever allowed yourself to completely give up your needs in order to meet your partner's, or sacrificing what's important to you for the relationship? After this workshop, this will no longer be an issue.

Understanding Your Truth

Gain a deep understanding of what you truly want,  the deep-rooted desires you're hiding from yourself, and what you're looking for in a partner. You'll be surprised how much of this you're NOT aware of. We'll help you find the blind spots!

Boundary Building

Have you ever allowed yourself to completely give up your needs in order to meet your partner's, or sacrificing what's important to you for the relationship? After this workshop, this will no longer be an issue.

Attachment Styles

Get complete clarity on your attachment style, how to work with it instead of against it, and what steps you need to take in order to reduce friction with your partner, quickly and easily.

Attachment Styles

Get complete clarity on your attachment style, how to work with it instead of against it, and what steps you need to take in order to reduce friction with your partner, quickly and easily.

Sexual Connection

Sex is a huge component of a successful and fulfilling relationship. Take charge of your desires so you and your partner can reach the highest of pleasures.

Conscious Relating

Learn the communication practices and how to create a safe container that will help you tap into each other's hearts, open up, and be vulnerable more than ever before.

Sexual Connection

Sex is a huge component of a successful and fulfilling relationship. Take charge of your desires so you and your partner can reach the highest of pleasures.

Conscious Relating

Learn the communication practices and how to create a safe container that will help you tap into each other's hearts, open up, and be vulnerable more than ever before.

Relationship Contract

Create a "relationship contract" that will get you crystal clear on what you want and need from a relationship, what your boundaries are, and how to facilitate the conversation with your partner.

Relationship Contract

Create a "relationship contract" that will get you crystal clear on what you want and need from a relationship, what your boundaries are, and how to facilitate the conversation with your partner.

Let's get one thing straight -- we're not "relationship coaches."

We're high-performance coaches and subconscious reprogramming experts.

 

Which means we help you address and dissolve the root cause of what's really causing disharmony in your relationship with yourself and your partner, rather than focusing on surface-level issues like telling you to make a list of your dream person or what to put on your Tinder profile.

 

We both have our own track record of failed relationships:

 

For most of her life, Celinne was a magnet for emotionally unavailable men -- men who were afraid of commitment and unwilling to face their avoidant patterns, running away at the first sign of a desire for deeper emotional connection and intimacy.

She kept attracting the same undesired circumstances in her life, because she was unaware of the unaddressed insecurities, low standards, and "daddy issues" that made up her relationship story.

 

AJ, on the other hand, avoided true intimacy. He didn't allow himself to open up and show his vulnerabilities. His unconscious patterns limited the depth of the relationships, and he kept attracting anxious women that would trigger his avoidant pattern.

He settled for the relationships that deep down he knew wouldn't workout, but were "good enough", yet he would constantly compare his partners with other women and unconsciously look for "something better". AJ wasn't able to ask for what he wanted because of the fear of being judged for not "being a real man".

 

Ultimately, he was thinking that women are just "less hairy men"...

 

We both had to do a lot of soul-searching, inner child work, and subconscious reprogramming to release years of blocks and learn what it meant to be in a healthy, conscious partnership where we can with ease ask for what we want and need, and that makes us better human beings every day (full disclaimer: we're not in a relationship anymore, and now more than ever we believe in this workshop because of the powerful way it's allowed us to grow and stay in each other's lives).

 

Using our extensive experience with subconscious reprogramming, human optimization, and high-performance coaching, we've completely rewritten our relationship story and have helped hundreds of people obliterate their biggest blocks and create the life they love and deserve through our work.

 

That's what the Rewrite Your Relationship workshop is for.

 

We're here to help you understand yourself on a deeper level and lay out the steps to become the person who can attract (and keep) the perfect partner and thrive in a conscious relationship.

Who is Rewrite Your Relationship Story for?

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    You're independent and ambitious but your love life feels unnecessarily difficult

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    You haven't been able to attract and/or successfully keep the partner you want

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    You're tired of repeating the same arguments and situations in your relationship and want it to get better

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    You're struggling to ask for what you truly need and raise your standards without scaring off your partner

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    You desire a deep, safe, healing, and fulfilling relationship

Here's what you're getting...

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    8 hours worth of teaching and coaching in video form

    Identify your limitations and subconscious blocks and break through them ($16,000++ Value) 

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    12-week implementation plan

    Designed for you to deepen your relationship with yourself and/or your partner ($2,000++ value) 

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    “Heal Your Relationship” resource library

    That allows you to keep deepening your relationship ($1,000++ value and saves you 10 years of sifting through useless resources) 

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    Relationship Agreement template

    And walkthrough of the relationship agreement crafting process ($1,000++ value) 

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    6 "Sex Date" ideas

    To master your sex life and explore your desires and deepen your intimacy (Priceless)

$20,000++ Value

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Two days of learning these powerful codes is the only thing separating you from stepping into your ideal relationship

When you join us for this recorded workshop, you will go from confused and unsure about what's holding you back to absolute clarity on what you need to do to overcome your blocks and  step into the most fulfilling relationship...

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    Phase 1

    Unlock what's truly holding you back and the reasons why you're getting in your own  way.

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    Phase 2

    Get clear on what you really want and what actions you need to take in order to get it!

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    Phase 3

    Take action - walk away with resources and a clear understanding on the EXACT steps that you need to take in order to have the relationship of your dreams.

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Are you ready to Rewrite Your Relationship Story?

  • Fill your own voids so you show up as a sovereign, complete partner in the relationship
  • Learn how to attract, and keep, your ideal partner
  • Develop an in-depth understanding of yourself and of your significant other
  • Tap into new depths of intimacy, compassion, and love... for yourself and your partner
  • Become a master of conscious communication and boundary setting
  • Discover proven frameworks for perpetual relationship growth
  • Identify your relationship blindspots and reprogram them on the subconscious level

DAY 1

- What is a conscious relationship? Why YOU are the problem and how to understand yourself enough in order to become a natural magnet for the relationship you crave

 

- 6 Human Needs: How your unaddressed subconscious needs are sabotaging you from getting what you want (and how to make this stop)

 

- Attachment Styles: The truth about your attachment style, how to work with it rather than against it, and how NOT to be a part of the 75% of the population that's engaging in toxic attachment styles

 

- Love Languages: Discover your love language and how to use it to effectively connect with and get what you want from your partner

 

- Boundary Setting: How to establish and uphold clear boundaries that naturally repel any wrong candidates for your future relationships or deepen your current one

 

- Shadow Work: Identify your triggers, befriend the dark, unconscious parts of you that cause trouble, and transmute your shadows into your superpowers

DAY 2

- Entities of the Relationship: How to manage the 5 entities (not 2!) of a relationship, and how to create greater intimacy with yourself and your partner

 

- Conscious Communication & Authentic Relating: How to quickly and effectively handle and dissolve conflict in a partnership, even if you've never been able to do that successfully in the past

 

- Your Relationship Contract: Receive guidance on crafting your customized, relationship agreement so you can create a strong, safe container for a prosperous and fulfilling relationship for years to come

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Frequently Asked Questions

Who is this workshop for?

This workshop is for men, women, single or in a relationship, really anyone looking to advance in their relationship with themselves and others. Some men ask us, "Is this workshop just for women?" Absolutely not! If you're a man, this workshop will allow you to tap into women's psyche and understand them on a deeper level... And that naturally leads to more fulfilling relationships.

How will this help if I'm already in a happy relationship?

Great question! Now, let's be honest for a second... There are so many patterns playing out on a subconscious level that cause us to butt heads in a relationship. This workshop will allow you to pinpoint them and connect with each other deeper than ever before!

What if I'm single?

Not a problem! The first thing that we are going to work on is your relationship with yourself! This workshop is designed to help you to get out of your own way and attract your dream partner!

What if I don't know what I want to work on?

That's very common! We don't know what we don't know, that's why we end up getting into situations where we think, "How did I end up here?!" We've been there. This workshop will help you find and overcome your dysfunctional patterns that you're unconsciously playing out in your relationships so they stop running your life without your consent.

What am I going to walk away with?

A complete toolbox of techniques and processes that you can use moving forward to… 

-Have the tough conversations and create win-win outcomes

-Spot the red flags and walk away from what doesn’t serve you 🚩

-Get crystal clarity on your boundaries and how to assert them without constricting your partner 

-Create your own customized relationship contact, and handle objections while negotiating it

-Attract and keep a healthy, ideal partner that you're passionate about being with

-Create deep, long-lasting connections that grow you and your partner

-Uncover and release self-sabotaging behaviors and patterns and much much more!

Ready tap into your most conscious, fulfilling relationship?

Big changes start small.

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